There was a time when good manners weren’t seen as fussy or outdated but a natural part of daily life – a way to show care, respect, and consideration for others.

In an era of endless screen time, hurried conversations, and increasingly casual social norms, some of these small yet meaningful customs have fallen by the wayside. It’s time to bring them back.

Etiquette, at its heart, isn’t about rigid rules or superiority; it’s about making the world a little kinder, smoother, and more gracious for everyone.

Here are 20 etiquette tips worth reviving to help us cultivate more connection, warmth, and respect in our daily interactions.

Because good manners never go out of style!

1. Greeting people warmly – eye contact and a genuine smile are everything.

2. Good posture – Standing and sitting up straight conveys confidence and respect (plus, it’s great for .your back!)’

3. Open body language – Uncrossed arms, eye contact, and a relaxed stance make you more approachable.

4. Offer clear introductions – When introducing people, add a detail (“Anna, meet Jake – he also loves hiking!”). It gives them something to connect over.

5. Listening without interrupting – True conversation is an art, and it starts with listening.

6. Giving up your seat for someone who needs it – A small act of kindness that speaks volumes.

7. Writing thank-you notes – A text is nice; a handwritten note is unforgettable.

8. Waiting for everyone to be served before eating – A classic sign of patience and respect.

9. Putting phones away during meals and conversations – Presence is the best gift we can offer.

10. Standing up when greeting someone – A small but powerful gesture of respect.

11. Not talking with a full mouth and chewing quietly – No explanation needed.

12. Reciprocating invitations – If someone hosts, return the gesture. It doesn’t have to be elaborate – coffee, a walk, or even just a handwritten note of thanks keeps relationships balanced.

13. Not gossiping or speaking poorly of others – Class is lifting others up, not tearing them down.

14. Dressing appropriately for occasions – Not about being fancy, but conveying thoughtfulness and respect for the occasion at hand (e.g. keep gym clothes for the gym) 

15. Never offer unsolicited advice – Unless someone asks, assume they’re looking for support, not solutions.

16. Keeping your voice at a reasonable volume in public spaces – No need to broadcast your latest life update to the entire coffee shop.

17. Being on time – Respecting others’ time is a quiet form of kindness.

18. Returning borrowed items promptly – And in the same condition in which you received them.

19. Phone and text etiquette – Use “schedule send” for late-night texts, and try to avoid texting after 7 PM or before 8 AM unless it’s urgent. Thoughtfulness applies to digital spaces too!

20. Keeping your space inviting – A tidy home (or even just a clutter-free couch!) makes people feel welcome. Regular cleaning isn’t about perfection, but hospitality.

The bottom line

Etiquette isn’t about putting on airs – it’s for putting others at ease. Good manners help cultivate small habits of mindfulness that make life more beautiful for ourselves and those around us. And if that’s old-fashioned, maybe old-fashioned isn’t so bad after all.