Family, faith, and freedom: Reclaiming the lost joys of an American summer

By Erika Ahern

Published on June 30, 2025

Summer used to be more than a season—it was a shared cultural experience. American summer traditions weren’t just a pastime, but a way of life. Families slowed down, kids played freely, and faith and freedom weren’t just slogans, but living values. But in today’s fast-paced, over-programmed, and screen-saturated culture, many of these sacred rhythms have been lost.

This article is a guide for young Catholic and Christian families who want something more: not just a vacation, but a vision. We’ll help you rediscover seven simple, joy-filled summer traditions that renew the soul, bond the family, and build a culture of faith and freedom right where you are.

By returning to these practices, you can reclaim what summer was always meant to be: a season of renewal—spiritually, relationally, and even patriotically.

7 Lost American summer family traditions worth reclaiming

Sunday Mass followed by a family picnic

Root your week in the Eucharist, then gather for food and fun. Whether it’s a park, lake, or backyard, the pairing of worship and rest deepens both. Bonus points: bring a blanket, a frisbee, and maybe a spiritual book to read aloud.

The cross-country family road trip

Rediscover the joy of long drives and sacred destinations. Visit a shrine, a national park, or even your grandparents. The road becomes a classroom of wonder, patience, and bonding. Driving with kids? Check out our audio book list for entertaining your littles ones on the drive.

Porch nights and front yard hospitality

Set out chairs, pour lemonade, and see who comes by. Invite neighbors or parish friends for an unplugged evening of old-school conversation. You may be surprised how natural it feels.

Campfires with songs, stories, and s’mores

Bring back a classic American tradition that doubles as family catechesis. Sing hymns, tell family stories, recite poetry, or just marvel at the stars. The fire becomes a symbol of warmth, memory, and eternity.

A week at the lake—or your backyard version of it

Even if you don’t have a cabin, you can recreate the rhythm of water, quiet, and connection. Rent a campsite, set up a hammock, or make your backyard a “staycation zone.” The goal is presence, not luxury.

Fourth of July with real patriotism

Make Independence Day about more than fireworks. Teach kids why freedom matters. Pray for our country, read the Declaration aloud, sing God Bless America, and thank a veteran.

Family talent nights or homegrown performances

Unleash creativity in your living room. Whether it’s kids doing skits, a parent reading poetry, or cousins putting on a play, these moments build memories and draw families close.

Shutterstock

Exciting results

To create your own American summer tradition, you don’t need luxury or Instagram-worthy plans to reclaim summer—you need intention, tradition, and faith. The most important advice is to start small. Choose one or two of these traditions to bring back into your family rhythm and commit to practicing them consistently. Over time, their beauty and impact will deepen.

To get started, sit down as a family and decide on one tradition you’d like to revive this week. Consider inviting friends or neighbors to join you, making the experience communal as well as meaningful. Then, as summer winds down, take time to reflect together: What did you enjoy most? What surprised you? And what memories will you carry forward into the seasons ahead?

4.8 8 votes
Article Rating
Subscribe
Notify of
guest
8 Comments
Oldest
Newest Most Voted
Inline Feedbacks
View all comments
Bob
Bob
1 month ago

What a fantastic list. Most were traditions in our house

Kimber
Kimber
1 month ago

Let’s start with recovering Sundays … I miss simple Sundays where you went to Mass (or Sunday service), lunch or dinner was hosted by grandparents, stores were closed (maybe one gas station was open), Sunday drives were a thing, you weren’t rushing around but just being with family, naps, play, relaxing. Laugh if you will, but I think if we truly recovered the LORD’s day, we would have a shift in the culture over time! Look what happened over time after Sundays became like any other day of the week. Sunday is NOT just an ordinary day, is it? It’s up to Christians to reclaim this in my opinion. That’s why I don’t shop on Sundays. I don’t go out to eat on Sundays (if someone invites me, I invite them to my home instead). I go to Mass. I rest. I spend time with my dad, family, friends. My little way of being countercultural. GOD bless!

Ellen
Ellen
1 month ago
Reply to  Kimber

I have 5 siblings and my parents would take us to visit family almost every Sunday afternoon. We grew up in the 50s and 60s and we would all pile into the old blue Ford. It was great fun!

Josee
Josee
1 month ago

Erica, I wish I had someone like you around whenI was raising my 4 boys. Keep inspiring young families and enjoy your fzmily! God bless you all!

JKH
JKH
1 month ago

First, we have to overcome the nation’s obsession with sports: Practice every evening then games and tournaments, baseball, softball, camps for fall and winter sports, gym time and weight room time, miss those and the kids won’t be on the team.
We had a coach who purposely scheduled practices during fair week at the time the kids were doing livestock chores. That meant the kids either had to pull out of showing or feed their animals and clean stalls before dawn.

Last edited 1 month ago by JKH
Christen
Christen
1 month ago

I love this. Just one teeny suggestion though. I used to be a Protestant who believed all sorts of crazy ideas about the Catholic Church one of which was that Catholics are not Christians. Now I’m Catholic and many of my Protestant family and friends believe I am no longer a Christian because I joined the Catholic Church. But the reality is, the Catholic Church THE Christian Church …the original Christians were Catholic! So instead of saying, “Catholics and Christians” we should be saying, “Catholic and Non-Catholic Christians”.

Ann
Ann
1 month ago
Reply to  Christen

ABSOLUTELY…Welcome Home! 🙂

Trailing Rose
Trailing Rose
1 month ago

This a great list! One tiny qualm… the unnecessary modifier “even” on visiting your grandparents!

Visiting our grandparents and other extended family, even plotting a whole family reunion, should ABSOLUTELY be a requirement for a classic American summer! I just read another article on CV that states “family” is our number one priority… so prove it! by showing your kids how valuable far-away relatives are… and how you expect them to treat *you* and their siblings as adults one day. Put a priority on quality relationships with the far-flung relatives, and on the elders, even if their personalities are rough or difficult.

That’s how we learn to love and accept each other through conflict.

8
0
Would love your thoughts, please comment.x
()
x